A few minutes before the end of session I asked her to sit by me on the couch and hold my hand, so she did (and I put my head on her shoulder.) It's not something we do every session, but still fairly frequently. The touch is greatly reduced from what it used to be (she used to hold me for the whole session, back when she still liked me) now we just hold hands if I'm feeling sad, but she doesn't always say yes when I ask. Dunno why the flip out over the boob graze. Prolly a lot to do with why she popped up a year into things with the "A frame hug" insisting she had always hugged me that way (a lie) saying that our stomachs and breasts were "sexual" and should never touch. I can only assume she was told that the way she was holding me before was inappropriate and so instituted stricter touch boundaries (which I rejected) and didnt let her hold me anymore, not that she wanted to anyway.

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And yea, I agree-we need a "what a boob" button, lol.