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Originally Posted by Lauliza
I have never heard of an "A frame hug"  , but I get it. I agree that she was probably told that this was all inappropriate and hence the changes. Has she expressed to you that she is tryining to avoid confusion regarding the nature of the hugs (sexual or non sexual)? She sounds like her entire line of thinking has completely changed from what it started as. If she just had better communication skills your situation would be so much less complicated and hurtful. |
exaggerated example of A frame hug:
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Q5GYAWaAar...on+&+Kelli.jpg
basically your butt is poked way out to prevent as much of your body as possible from touching the other person. its quite ridiculous.
she used to hug me like this:
http://s921.photobucket.com/user/abk...13019.jpg.html
and we'd do three deep breaths together before she let me go. even though if you ask her now she will swear she never ever did that. but she did consistently for a year, and even kissed my forehead once. Actually she did last month, too..June 2nd I think. But I don't think she noticed her slip up.