Wants2Fly, you have a point, too. I've heard of such things many times. Makes me furious, because the victim isn't the one who did anything wrong. How many times have we heard of young girls and women being raped, and the rapist is popular and perhaps athletic, and she becomes the bad guy, even to other women? But I still say to take action, because sometimes, things do go right, and the perpetrator needs to pay for what s/he's done.