so because they might have something out there that they don't want i should not do what pretty much is very common and standard for my generation? i'm a millennial. while some may not google, almost 99% of my friends google other people. we all google everyone. we google ourselves. we google our professors. we google our teachers. we google our employers. Our bosses. Our friends.

this is simply a fact of this generation. you can debate the merits. you can declare that you find it 'boundary crossing' but honestly, i don't because i'm not doing anything to my t that i haven't done to every single other person in my life and they haven't done to me. it's like looking up to see if someone's in the phone book. i remember doing that too.

we're curious creatures, us humans.

if it bothers you, don't google. but i don't bat an eye at it. heck, i hardly remember half of what i find because most of what you find is mundane and boring. an address (yawn) or a work location (double yawn). but sometimes you find something interesting about another person, like a blog or a website or an article. and those are fun times. like a friend of mine who had someone else who shared her name that wrote erotic poetry and she is *not* the erotic poetry type. we still laugh about that.