Can I rephrase my post? Is there such a thing as lacking in social skills or being socially awkward without necessarily fitting one of the disorder classifications? In my case and I may fit one of the categories of disorder-I don't know, but I sometimes think it just took me an awful long time to become aware of some of the not so fine points of social conduct. It's like I wish someone would have just pointed out some of these things to me years ago.