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Old Jul 17, 2014, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted by krisakira View Post
Sorry to have to say this, but the world does not owe you sex, and neither does your wife. Your marriage is more than just sex. If you feel you can't handle this, then you need to divorce your wife before you start having sex with other people. My husband only wants sex maybe once a month. But marriage is more than the ability to stick your **** into something.
I may be wrong, but it sounds like you're a bit frustrated in your own situation. I just think the response you gave...the last part particularly was a bit harsh, and not altogether helpful. Maybe it just came out that way.

I understand how the OP feels, but I agree, cheating is not the way to go, which I stated. However, speaking as a woman, I could NOT be in a relationship with a man if sex was only to be had once a month. I wouldn't cheat, but I probably would seek a divorce.

It's not just the sex, btw or where he sticks his ............it's about the intimacy of making love. If I have to do without that, I'd just as soon be alone.
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