Yes I do need sex. But not in the seedy "stick my ... into" way as you appear to portray me. I am a person with thoughts, feelings, desires, wants and needs. Like anyone else. And yes I see sex as, not the be all and end all, but as part of a healthy sustaining relationship. And if it isn't there then I begin to doubt myself and my situation. I'm fully aware that she deserves respect, also I am fully aware of the destruction that affairs cause. But at the same token I also deserve respect. And I also deserve to feel loved and more to the point....wanted. Especially when she knew she the type of man she agreed to marry