He ruined my familys life, Travelinglady. If he wants to live with his demons and let them torture him until he dies and won't fight back, I just don't care anymore. I just feel more sad for my brother, who's such an embittered and depressed man who only wanted to be loved by a man who neglected him and deemed him as a bastard child. He thinks doing the dna exam and showing it to my father is the solution for his grief; how wrong he is....