At the OP. I can relate. I see some narcissistic personality traits in my own life... but, I don't see how I could be a "real" narcissist, because I'm all to aware that I overinflate my own importance and abilities. I know I'm flawed and that I get caught up in bragging and ridiculously high self-esteem at times, that I love to be the center of attention, and that I can be insensitive.... but I hate those parts of my personality.

I also have some insight into why I have these flaws....