I need time to process the session, too. It's rare for me to be able to check what she means in the middle of a session...especially if it's an emotional one.
It's difficult to double-check sometimes. In my case, I *thought* I knew what she had said or meant at the time, so it didn't occur to me to check with her. But When I asked about several issues yesterday, I found I was interpreting her words, lack of words, her "sigh" ..or other mannerisms negatively...and she didn't mean them that way at all.