i tried to contemplate this question and it made me feel weird. like, i know what he likes and i know we have a lot in common and could definitely fit a full day in together... but if i had a whole day and no kids, i'd genuinely want to spend it with my hubs. when i imagine traveling to another city, it's the man i married i want to be with.

not to be a downer on the question. i think my t is awesome and i deeply value the time we spend together (and wouldn't mind longer sessions lol - maybe coffee, i'd do coffee) but he's not the man i want to be with or the friend i imagine having when i imagine the answers to these questions.