Wow. I would definitely not stay in a relationship with you if you told me I couldn't go and visit a friend in prison - and further more taking that as a sign of disrespect to you? That's ridiculous. No one can tell me who I can and cannot be friends with, nor can anyone tell me what I can and cannot do with my time.

She agreed to the picture BEFORE she was in a relationship with you. There is nothing wrong with her doing that. I'd consider it if I had a friend ask, although I'd probably just print them off a picture of a model or something instead, haha. She immediately withdrew her agreement once she began a relationship with you. That shows that she respects you and values you.

Just because she is friends with him and is alright with him thinking about her being naked.... doesn't mean that she's interested in having any sort of sexual relationship with him.

I have to say that I pretty well agree with her - you are being controlling, you are trying to change her, and you are being incredibly jealous for no reason. She hasn't done anything to warrant your jealousy and distrust - she's been honest with you about the things that he's requested - she sure didn't have to tell you what he asked for! And instead, you treat her like she's guilty of cheating on you and decide to dictate to her what she can do in regards to her friendships... you're the one being disrespecful, not her.

Sorry if that's harsh, but I really think you are in the wrong here. She deserves your trust and respect.