Without knowing the background of your question, I'm not sure what sort of opinion you want, but I can say that once you love someone...really love them...then I don't think it's possible to just 'stop' loving them. The kind of love may change, with time, but the emotion is still there. It is with me, that is.

This, of course is not in referral to a horrible, abusive person....there, the tendancy is to turn love into hate, but as hate IS an emotion in and of itself, it's still residual to what the love had been.

The only way to truly hate someone, is to not care about them at all, anymore....if you don't care...literally are oblivious to them and their place (previous or current) in your life, then that is truly loss of love IMHO.

I hope this answers your question.