Are people really called "narcs" as much as people write here??(Hard for me to believe)
Now for the topic, I react quickly to confrontation. I usually get very angry and am all to often quick to go on the offense. When I drink I usually test people in an aggressive way which is something I really need to stop doing. I have very minimal restraint which causes problems. I often will lose my mind quickly and when this happens my thoughts come out of my mouth that probably nobody can understand. (The tornado in words haha)
I like to challenge people too much and this is one of the things I would like to change. To let go and know that my response is not needed at all times.