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Originally Posted by SkyWhite
He probably already knows you have those feelings. Talking about it can be good because it'll be all out in the open. And remember, you CAN cry in there and he will help you make at least some of it better. He doesn't expect you to do it all by yourself, that's why he's there. We just can't sit on their laps or hug their legs, lol.
It took me awhile but recently I just blurted out "I AM dependent on you!" I couldn't believe I even said it. He didn't say anything because he gets it. A couple of months ago I told him I wanted someone to just hold me and tell me everything is going to be okay and he said the dreaded, "You have to learn to do that for yourself" line. I didn't like it, but I survived.
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Oh man Sky. I understand the philosophy behind it, but at this point if I heard those words from him I would curl up in a fetal position and bawl... LOL (not really funny). That would probably be why I have NOOOOOO intention of letting it out there at all!
Again though, thank you for putting it out there in the open. I'm not as ashamed of it as I was. I appreciate that.