I am sorry that this happened to you. I would have hoped for better from a pdoc but I think that you have a right to voice your concern and destruction of trust with these two. I do not know you yet Okey but I use the phrase okeydokey all the time and I think my kitty is on your avatar.

I hope that you are feeling better. Have you been to the IEP and how did that go? I am unsure if you are in care for your needs but...I am ... and I am familiar with meltdowns...unfortunately.

Hang in there. Say what is on your mind and see what you get back from them. I think that they could have guided you for assistance or talked to you about what you might need. On the other hand...now.. how much would you want THEM to know?

Hang in there.