Why does he want to be in the military? If I were a mother I might be warning him it's effed up times for the world and nobody knows what will happen next, so being in military might put him on the front lines of the next big conflict.

I don't know how it works though. I mean, if they dont ask, I'd say they don't have to disclose.

(btw, I remember your thread from long time ago about your son... glad things worked out well for both of you)