Thanks VenusHailey. I remember you too
I guess our family has always been a military fam. I was in, my ex retired military, and two of my daughters are AD Air Force. They are in computers, so less likely to see combat. I had 8 (yikes!) kids and it can give them the chance to pursue college that route if they choose to since we don't have the means to pay. Not to say the risk is not there.

For my son, I think he sees it as two-fold. Following in his fathers footsteps (did not see combat either). The military was very good to us, even with frequent moves, separation for TDY's or TAD's. We were never rich but the perks of housing, medical, GI bill, etc. makes it enticing. Oh and the travel & experiencing other cultures was my love.

Is our economy rebounding? I'm not sure. Unemployment still seems high, and wages low in my state. The military may give them a starting foundation. I hope I never feel the loss and pain suffered by military parents, wives and families.

He may not get in, not just because of his history, but they are more selective than they were when I went in.

And more good news unrelated to the military. I'm more balanced and got a job yesterday in the medical field. Will love it! I was a medic and always drawn to helping others, but of course to do so need to be healthy in mind and spirit myself. I think my lull had been due to lack of goals/direction/structure & puttering around the house. I have never been happier as I am when helping others.

How are you doing? I think I have much to catch up on! It's really great to hear from you or read your posts. Always thought provoking and wise.