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Originally Posted by hvert
I really like healingme4me's suggestion.
I would also think back to conversations with her before the swimming argument. Have things been well balanced between you two? I have taken a step back sometimes when it feels like the relationship is only about me supporting the other person. I'm not suggesting that your friendship is like that, but is it possible she is a bit overwhelmed?
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The first part of our relationship was a bit one-sided, as we became friends pretty much right before my depression worsened and I was
admitted to a partial hospital program. Since then, I've been pretty emotionally stable, but there have been times where I've gotten upset over trivial things around her and I've began to cry. I can definitely see if she's somewhat overwhelmed. If that is it, I'm pretty disappointed that she's choosing to avoid me instead of telling me that I'm too intense and volatile for her.
Before the swimming incident, things were pretty normal, except for the few times that I've become irrationally upset.
I also really like healingme4me's suggestion.