I am considering this yet again. Tonight has just really really sucked and I think that maybe it may have set me back. The problem is that there is this rule I guess that the staff can only talk to those parts who have a history of hurting me. All the others they are not supposed to talk to. This was brought to my attention before and I talked to my T about it, she didn't think it was good. So she talked to the head person and the head person denied that she said it. But I guess it's still how they are doing it, either this head person is lying or someone started this rule. I don't know it's just when they ignore some parts, especially the little ones, they get very upset and it is not good. It sets my system into chaos. Am I wrong for being upset about this? Besides that one of my parts who has a history of hurting me came out and talked to this staff person. They did have a very good relationship and she helped him to stop hurting me. But because of all this tonight he got upset and now he's not going to talk to her, he says she doesn't care and that I need to quit talking to her too. This also has created an upheaval inside. Any thoughts, words of encouragement, advice, anythting really would help.

Jennifer