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Originally Posted by trying2survive
IMHO i think you need to find another guy, if you find another guy..you will forget all about him.
it's like that with relationships, until you do your mind and your heart will be stuck on "replay" and will continually replay the traumatic event and keep you locked in this cycle.
i know that sounds like an overly simplistic answer to a complicated problem..but it is truth that i speak.i assure you nothing wipes away the pain of a failed relationship like a new love..(hee hee i just made that up..but i like that), i'll have to remember that!
but yes, find someone new..and dissappear your pain will!  |
I have tried this before and it failed miserably, after another boyfriend, he was still there in my mind, and made me miserable in that relationship, i don't even think of him as a person anymore, just a thing with this overbearing power and manipulation
thank you though, I know you are right really x