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Old Jul 18, 2014, 08:30 PM
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Once I found the article that describes the situation I checked with our State licensing board and he was sanctioned. It's all there, public information. I'm really upset and don't know what to do with this information. He terminated me after nearly five years going x5 a week because I went through a terrible time, my life fell apart and I was late paying him one month. I was in crisis he terminated me anyway overnight no referals no nothing. The whole situation devasted me and I haven't been able to get over it. Im way worst than when I started and my life has been reduced to nothing. I don't go out, I don't talk to anyone and I don't want to. I want to trade my life for one of the passengers killed on the Malaysian plane who leaves behind five daughters and contributed so much to research and a cure for a terrible disease. I never thought it would end this way. Maybe if I had seen that article about T sooner. I don't know. T are supposed to be healing relationships and mine, even though he knew my history, he hurt me even further. So many Ts continue to see their clients during rough times. They don't abandon their patients. Why couldn't mine do that for me? Am I that insignificant? But what can I expect when my own mother didn't care enough to save me from my father and he abused me in every possible way. If I didn't matter to them how can I expect a stranger with what seems like questionable ethics to care???
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