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Originally Posted by Underground
Was there an ad written somewhere that I must of missed?? Where is eveyone coming from?
A few pointers for the repeated questions:
If you feel bad about hurting people...... You don't have NPD
If you understand others feelings and can put yourself in their shoes..... You don't have NPD
If you really care what others are speaking about that doesn't pertain to benefiting you.... You don't have NPD
If you feel for a complete stranger..... You don't have NPD
Just because you think your the best...... You don't have NPD
Best looking...... You don't have NPD
Feel free to add to this list. Im only doing it so we can stop reading all these stupid sob stories of what if's that are a complete waste of our time. (Not being the best I can be right now)
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thanks honestly I don't think about these questions at all. Like hurting people. I don't really feel it matters if I'm hurting anyone as long as I'm not breaking the law. I don't really assume to know what's going on in other people's heads.
At my job though I wish sometimes I understood people's feelings more. Because I look stupid not really knowing what to do next.
I was raised though this way to not really care what others say whether good or bad I think my mom is AvPD so I tend to be similar keep to myself not put much weight into what others say and the like.
The rest hits I don't feel like I want to really delve into it though.
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Originally Posted by Atypical_Disaster
If you feel bad about the possibility of having NPD, you don't have NPD.
If you are simply vain, you don't have NPD.
If you simply are actually intelligent and self-confident, you don't have NPD.
If you think this forum is too rough and/or offensive, you don't have NPD.
If you can turn your empathy on and off, you don't have NPD.
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I don't worry about having NPD. I worry about AsPD. I think the violent thoughts I have scare me because I don't like the result if I were to get caught. I don't want to be raped or beaten or restrained where I can go and I don't like having anyone tell me what to do like I would in prison.
I have a high iq. So did my dad. I've always known I was smart. I am confident but the rest hits. I don't feel those things. But again I don't feel like delving into it.