thanks W2F - this is just the reason why i dont want to go further with it.....in my previous job there was a racial discrimination suit happening and nothing came of it. the girl resigned - to this very day she still doenst have a job and that was 2 yrs ago....so its kinda scarry how our legal systems work.....be it here in South Africa or be it in the UK/US whereever - things are just way to messed up....

he actually thinks he is gods gift to women, his wife and i are actually good acquintances and i cant believe that a man with such a woman would want another......she is amazing!!!!

some men, not all are real B*&tards...sorry but its the truth....

my hubby is not impressed...but he says to me - "luffy i know you will make the right descion and should you feel its getting way to much for you, then i will step in..."