I'm around... kind of but I'm confused on why you are spending the night? Did you want separate rooms? I'd be anxious too but only for a bit. I don't mind being rude.

I should add ~ the post doesn't sound stupid. When I sleep somewhere~ I lock up the house. I don't care how safe it is~ I'm locking up.

I can't walk away without saying it~ I'd be gone. My husband can come with me or he can sleep at momma's and I'll lock the door behind me.