I have a HUGE problem with people pleasing!!! My husband says that I avoid his family and that is rude and they think it's rude. He knows how anxious I am in these kind of situations, but I am not going to hurt them by being rude. That is why I have to stay the night. Oh, I might have forgotten to say that his family is 4 hours from us. When I dropped him off to stay here, I was able to do a run in and out but I promised him I would stay all night this time.
NOOOO, I didn't ask for separate rooms. My husband has problems of his own and not thinking about anyone but himself is on the top of it. He just decided this would be best if we were in separate rooms because the air conditioner in their house went out.
I know it all sounds pretty superficial, but after stressing over coming here at all, then having to go to his family friends house at 9:30 at night (which I consider very wrong to do), hearing I have to meet someone new tomorrow and NOW being in a room by myself has just really built on me.
The thing around here is there are a LOT of unspoken rules and I have already broken some before and I can't handle people being upset with me. I have been already hoping I don't need to go to the bathroom tonight because I don't even want to walk out in the hall.
I hate this.