I finally did it. I filed... Then I confronted him. He was more concerned about how I got the info and who knew than that I was filing because he was lying. He also was very concerned about what I had been personally working on since we've separated. He says there are more people who do worse things than him who work it out (which is definitely true) but I told him he certainly shouldn't be comparing himself to others at this point. He told me I was making a huge mistake. He declared he wanted half if the equity in the car and house and that was about the end. I decided not to mention that if I turn him for his use he would absolutely loose his job. Figure that will be useful further down. Then he texted my mom that night and told her " your daughter is making a huge mistake, I ask that you pray for her, if she had spent as much time supporting my healing as making a case against me we could make it. God knows my heart and how far I've come. I wish she could see as well". Are you kidding me!!!! I've been "supporting his healing for three years and he's been lying the whole time. I'm so done!


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