It is no longer about who is right or wrong.....or who is being punished and why.....
Make a plan to get out...with help of family or what ever...the sooner the better. He said he will never lay a hand on you...bull...he is doing a lot of other things that are so far from normal and safe. If nothing else, you owe it to your children to get out as soon as possible. If I was living next door to you and you were not trying to get out I would be calling on social services to intervene on your children's behalf.
YOUR KIDS NEED TO GET OUT AND SO DO YOU!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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