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Not sure how long this person has been in your life...but someone I loved more than anyone else thus far (7+ years) - let go. It took me almost 2 years - the pain was less with time. I will always love him...but he holds a place in my brain/heart and that is ok...it's not painful anymore. The more you hold on to the romantic thoughts makes it harder to get over them.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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