I...don't think I've been asked that question. Then again, I usually make sure no one (including my parents) knows this side of me. I tend to think deeper than some of the peple I know, so already that narrows down the number of people that I can be on the same wavelength with in this subject. I know I'll tell someone one day, but I don't think I've found the right person to talk to.
I think I can see how some people don't like being asked that question though, especially if the person who's asking doesn't quite grasp how any of this can work....There's also the traumatic memories depending who's being asked...Well, that or even just the confrontation itself. I'd probably be scared/annoyed of the latter.