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Old Jul 19, 2014, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by waiting4 View Post
I may be wrong, but it sounds like you're a bit frustrated in your own situation. I just think the response you gave...the last part particularly was a bit harsh, and not altogether helpful. Maybe it just came out that way.

I understand how the OP feels, but I agree, cheating is not the way to go, which I stated. However, speaking as a woman, I could NOT be in a relationship with a man if sex was only to be had once a month. I wouldn't cheat, but I probably would seek a divorce.

It's not just the sex, btw or where he sticks his ............it's about the intimacy of making love. If I have to do without that, I'd just as soon be alone.
thank you so much for this, i would never stay in a relationship having sex once a month..no it's not everything but it is very high up there in importance.

like you said it's about intimacy and closeness and getting needs met.
i can tell you as a man..i'm not gonna be twisting and turning all night horny as heck and not get something done about it.

totally unacceptable..as you said, if i had to do without that i may as well be alone i agree wholeheartedly
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