i'm envious of people who don't get depressed. i wouldn't wish it on them although i do wish they'd have more understanding. i've learned to articulate myself enough that i can lay the smackdown on anyone who suggests i just get over it. or that i just need to x more or whatever. i'm like, 'do you even know? no, you don't.'

that said, my t hasn't ever been depressed. but he also gets it. so it is possible. my hubs finally gets it. he's been depressed but for him it was circumstantial not biological. he's really good to me now, i can't complain.