This is a great forum for those of us with transference issues. I feel very connected to the people writing in this forum. I have ONE HUGE PROBLEM - I often check in on people's postings, and I will have a really tough time if my husband catches a glimpse of the title of this forum on my phone or computer- "Romantic Feelings Towards my Therapist"! I'm not in love (well, not anymore ) it's transference. Try explaining that one to your spouse.