This is a pretty simple question. I'm really just wondering what made you feel like, or know that you could trust your T. Did they do something specific, or did it just happen over time. Or, are you like me and still trying to figure this out. Sometimes I feel like I trust her, but now that I have to confront some more difficult issues, and now that I'm really trying to let her take care of me, I'm having a hard time. I feel like she is going to abandon me at any minute.