Wow, interesting. I'm no T for sure, but to me, just from what you've said, seems like your issue isn't an addiction to masturbation as much as being able to have intimacy and contact with another person and just being OK with being turned on. People need sex, so reliving that tension is normal and that's what you're doing.

Maybe you just don't get enough satisfaction from doing it yourself. For me, orgasms with a woman who I'm very connected with, physically and mentally, are on a totally different level and intensity than when I just masturbate by myself. The satisfaction with a partner can be worlds different, and the satisfaction lasts a lot longer. A lot. Even when I Skype sex with a woman, it's a whole lot better that just alone.

It would be interesting to see what your self-pleasure habits would be if you were able to enjoy being aroused, and be with another person sexually. Best of luck to you!