just as nowhere stated, unless you are a danger to yourself, she cannot tell your husband anything. at that, she can only tell him you are a danger to yourself and cannot give him any details. only that he needs to get you help. she will be violating confidentiality otherwise and you can file charges against her. she is blackmailing you and not being very professional. on the other hand she much really care about you to be trying so desperately to get you to come in. take care.