one time when within the first year i started working with my T i was standing in his doorway talking to another staff person and T came up behind me and hugged me around my neck from behind. even the staff person i was talking to was a little shocked. i think she said "woah". i moved away and felt a little uncomfortable. after a while and when i think back on it now it was kind of inappropriate as i have issues of sexual abuse with a former T. i was surprised too because he came from behind and i wasnt expecting any of that from him. i never talked to him about it but it doesnt really bother me much now. i think T was just excited and forgot his boundaries and mine for a moment. Ts make mistakes. he has never done anything like that again and im pretty sure if he did i would say something now. i had a hard time verbalizing my emotions in the beginning so i never said anything. i know 100% in my head and in my heart that T would Never cross a sexual boundary with me. we hug sometimes but now its always asked for or offered.