Hi all.
The latest is I went to see yet another therapist. This one seems to know a bit about my sons problem. I had a private meeting wit him first during the week then My Wife myself and My Son had an appointment of Fri last. The therapist had us all in an office together where we discussed our son's problem. We also told him of our son's request to be a baby at home. The therapist tried to discuss with our Son however our Son wasn't forthcoming in talking to the therapist. So after a while our son was sent to the games room to wait, The therapist had left some fetish books there referring to this subject and Left our son in that room while we talked some more. It would seem from that talk that our Son is experimenting with his sexuality and his transition from teen to adult. Sometimes it takes a little nudge in the right direction to steer the the teen to know the difference between what should be done in the privacy of his own room or what he needs us as a family for. The therapist said that while what our son is doing is not a major cause for alarm it would be best to get it back to the son's private space. This unfortunately is going to take some weeks it's not an overnight cure and there is no magic wand to make it go away. The therapist has to build a friendship with our son and also gain his trust. Which for us that means there is a bitter pill to swallow. The therapist asked if we were in a position to allow our son his request in the privacy of our own home with family only would we be prepared to accept and help our son realise that being a baby full time is not exactly like he dreams it to be and that if he were to be allowed this. That would mean that all his teen gadgets he has would be confiscated until he was a responsible person to use these items. It would also mean that we as parents would be changing nappies again. According to therapist these books that were left in games room are a sort of help for him they do mention this fetish and they talk in there about the best ways that his fetish could nurture in the privacy of his own room without the aid of any unwilling participant. The mind is a wonderful thing and left to it's own devices it can produce the best scenarios ever thought possible. I haven't agreed as yet to the therapist he did say that he understands that it's a lot to take in but go home and think about it and let him know how we intend to proceed. So what you think does this sound like good reasoning I am kind of torn between yes and no myself I can see the merit in it. Then I can also see the downside my 16 year old as a baby for a number of weeks until he builds a friendship and trust with therapist. Thanks in advance
Regards
Rh01