You're right, you aren't telling anybody to do anything. You are suggesting, giving the opposite point of view which you do often, which is fine. I jus tend to think when it comes to the safety of another person, suggesting, or condoning something that would detrimental to their life, is a little reckless.

I just think back to this past winter, when I was at my lowest place ever, where the threat of inpatient was present at every appointment for about two months. If I had just ONE person suggest that doing whatever I could to sabotage T trying to help me and keep me safe, my irrational state of mind, may ignore the people keeping me safe and listen to the one person who maybe saying otherwise.