T is not allowed to tell your husband any details of your sessions. He can only report his concern for you. If your T says more than that - ever - he is violating your HIPPA rights and should be reported. I hope you can go back to your T and either talk things out with him or let him know you are going to see another T. This is not a good sign for someone that is supposed to be helping you. I hope you can find another T for your sake.