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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
Main T hugged me early on in a moment of exasperation for both of us. I was a bit freaked at the time but it ended up being an extremely healing experience. He did apologize saying he should have asked first. Since then, we always talk about it first and I usually have to ask.
oh i'm so glad i'm not the only one who freaked out lol. i sent this really long rambly email to my t just going all over the place about it and basically just emotionally vomited.

i try to remember he is a t and that t's are 'used to' this sort of thing. even if they are the trigger :P
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Thanks for this!
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