You need to ask someone who is treating you, but traits of a disorder means that you have some of the traits but either not enough for the full criteria or the person making the diagnosis isn't sure yet if you meet the full criteria. Has anyone mentioned autistic spectrum disorders? Sensory processing disorder plus AvPD would describe a lot of the same symptoms as an autistic spectrum disorder (sensory processing disorder is with that group. The AvPD traits are very similar to the other part of ASD.)