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Depending on others to fill the hole is never smart by itself - yes, when that other person leaves, that hole is still there. IMO - you choose people to enhance your life as you enhance their life. Filling our own emptiness is very difficult but it can be done. And if you like pets and you can fit them in your lives - Awesome. I do not currently have a dog...but LOVE them!!!
They can make my heart sing.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
Last edited by brainhi; Jul 21, 2014 at 07:11 AM.
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