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There was another thread discussing loneliness. Another person you love in your life can be wonderful....but you have to figure out how to feel good with you. Someone else will be more attracted to you if you are pursuing things you like to do...others will have that in common with you. Do not pretend to be something you are not to attract somebody...you would not want someone to do that to you...and then you find out "who they really are". What are the things you like about yourself???
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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