Another one, though this one is a bit sad and upset me for quite a while.

I met a girl at an art exhibit I was a part of. There was a party on the opening night and we got talking to each other. At the end of the night we were the last two out the doors and she asked if I wanted to go for a drink. We found a nice pub and chatted away late into the night then swapped numbers and gave each other a hug.

A week later I was asked by another group I was a part of to buy some plants for a roof garden. They gave me the company credit card and said "go buy what you like". I thought an all expenses paid shopping trip could be a fun day out, so I contacted this girl and asked if she wanted to come help me pick things, but there was no response.

The garden renovations got set back for one reason or another so I never went shopping, which was fortunate because later that week the girl got back in touch, apologizing for not responding and saying that she'd like to meet up again. I told her that I hadn't done the shopping trip yet, so if she still wanted to come she was welcome. She gave no response.

I sent her another message a week later saying that I was trying to invite her out, but was starting to get frustrated with it and that if she would like to meet up she should try inviting me out instead. No response... at least not for another week when she called me up out of the blue late at night and asked if I wanted to come out for a drink. It was really late, but I thought what the hell, jumped in a taxi and met her in this bar. We had a really great night, got a bit drink, laughed and had a dance together. Then we parted ways.

The next week I invited her out to a gig. No response... till again she rang me really late and said "lets go to this gig, sounds like fun". I called her up and said that it was too late, the gig had already ended. She asked to still go out anyway, but I was tired and sort of settled so I arranged to do it another night, setting a date for the next weekend. We ended up chatting on the phone for hours though, till finally saying goodnight to each other around 3.00 in the morning.

The weekend of our date came around and I contacted her, asking if she was still up for it. No response. I send another message asking what was going on and that we had plans. No response. I went to bed that night feeling jilted.

The next day I get a message from this girl and it was quite hostile. She accused me of harassing her and been to pushy, then explained that she couldn't come out because she was with "Adam". I ask who this Adam guy is and she replies: "He's my husband."

Wa wa wa...