Sounds like your conselor was having a bad day, but that's no excuse for being so rude and uncaring with you.

When my mom passed away was when my anxiety and depression took hold of me. I've got that under control but the days before and after Aug. 3 are still very rough for me... and it's been 22 yrs.

I don't feel that you are allowing the trauma of finding your dad define who you are, but for your own good, you need to deal with it.

{{{{Faded}}}} hugs if okay