I am have a big issue with my family currently. My father refuses to meet my girlfriend, whom I have been with for a year. He complains she is ugly, fat and a slut, as well as complaining about her career as a health care aide, and her family. She isn't rich, neither am I. He doesn't know her at all yet judges her. He even snoops through my private texts to her, recently finding out about our sexual activities. This brings him to being the big Christian man and says we are both horrible people, though he isn't religious...and to say the least I myself went to my parents' wedding. I have made bad relationship decisions in the past, and my parents were right, but the woman I am with now is a wonderful person and I connect with her very well. She also has pcos, and I accept that she does. I love her for who she is, and I want my family to accept her, after all it has been a year. I am at a loss at what to do. I love her and the only way I would leave her is if we weren't compatible.