Thanks so much werewoman!
I agree that I need to discuss all of this to a T who is willing to listen before they shoot me with a quick assessment. I most probably have BPD and PTSD.
I just talked to the psychologist who said I do not have ADD and I do have BPD and maybe bipolar, on the phone. I was actually requesting the ADD conners test results and she said she could not release them by law. I told her that I am not convinced with her assessments as she did not get a history from me. She seemed defensive. So I will be patient and talk to a new T on Friday. We will see.
Thanks again