If you want a cuddly and emotional guy, maybe an aspie isn't the right thing. I find that people can be quite demanding if I don't overly express everything I feel about them. It's like nothing I DO for them matters unless it is followed by sugarcoated words.

Also a lot of aspies grew up HAVING to take care of themselves and look out for themselves during harsh circumstances. No one would help. I think that can cause a bitterness thinking no one else deserves help either.