What Bill3 said. I do that myself. I'm trying to stop because it gets me into more trouble than it is worth, but sometimes I have friends that I like but don't want to be that close to. I am never sure how to handle those relationships. It usually doesn't hurt to leave doors open when possible.

I have a vague memory of you posting about someone who sounded like a user -- is this that person, the one who was borrowing money? I wouldn't text her back